Report to the Annual Meeting of the Mothers’ Union 2005

Thank you for all your cards and good wishes when I stupidly tried to come down the stairs too fast. I really wasn’t plastered-only the next day!

Are we sitting back, satisfied with what we’re doing?

Or are we the grit in the oyster? Perhaps asking the awkward question? Challenging when we know things could be better in MU, in Church or in daily life.

What does the grit in the oyster produce? A pearl of great price, as it says in the Bible.

This was one of the illustrations produced by Trish Heywood, our Worldwide President on the first day of World wide Council to which Hilary and I went last month.

Although we were at Swanwick in the beautiful Derbyshire countryside, it was no holiday.

Prayers at 7.30 am followed by Bible study and then a full day of presentations, discussion groups, consultations and other business until we were let out after evening prayers for a quick drink in the bar before sinking into bed.

I came back with lots of ideas and information that I want to share with you, especially through our groups later in the day but what always impresses me is the sheer enthusiasm of the staff both paid and unpaid at these meetings and the preparation that is put in to make both worship and business really inspiring.

In the Bristol Diocese we do try to make trustees’ and Annual and Council meetings both informative, well ordered and even inspiring. We hope to set an example for deanery and branch meetings and for deanery festivals and quiet days. I’m sure most of you do have well-run meetings and I know you put a lot of thought and prayer into festivals but I have heard some hair-raising stories from speakers about less than courteous treatment. One diocesan president, (far from here, I hasten to add,) reported that she had arrived at a branch meeting and been greeted with ,’We’re not ready for you yet. You’d better go in the kitchen!’ I hope our welcomes are better than that!

Do branches still have the forms to send to speakers to give them all the information needed for their comfort and your satisfaction?  What about our MU services, or our Sunday ones?

If Christ, or indeed a stranger came to one of them, how would He rate our response to, ‘The Lord is here!’ You don’t need a lot of training to make the reply joyful! And you feel better for having said it joyfully. I look round at people singing hymns of praise and they usually look so miserable I wonder why they’re there!

Did you see pictures of Gordon Brown in Africa after Christmas? Not snapping elephants on game reserves but visiting villages like I did and others from our diocese in Uganda?

I quote, ‘The greatest surprise was to find a generation of practical women with the potential and impatience to secure change. Women are the victims here but they seem to be the solution. There is a leadership of women emerging in Africa that have potential to change the face of the continent. They are not going to stand by and let these problems remain neglected for much longer.’ We know MU is behind much of what is being achieved. But I don’t have to sell MU to Gordon Brown. He is a great fan and is often seen in Tufton Street.

Talking of politics, we are very near a general election. Do quiz candidates about their policy on marriage and family support. Do ask them about overseas aid. The ‘grey’ vote is very much sought after. Our generation is most likely to vote so make sure it is a thoughtful vote! I thought too that the Archbishop of Canterbury had some very wise things to say to the three parties a couple of weeks ago.’

If any of you have Saga magazine, you will also have seen their recent survey of the Grey vote which underlines the point that we are far more likely to vote than the under fifties. May we use that vote prayerfully.

I have two pieces of good news to finish with.

As some of you will know, there is no Mothers’ Union branch in Stoke Gifford where I live but I have just started a Young Mothers’ Union group- all young mums with small children. It’s really only because they live around me and I have made friends with them . It can be done!

Secondly, I have been invited to give a presentation to the Diocesan Synod in May. 10 minutes presentation and 10 minutes questions and answer session which is much more daunting. I shall need all your prayers that I say the right things.

It only remains to thank you for a good year, for all your hard work which went into the picnic in the Cathedral and for the day to day hard work in the units and the deaneries and branches and projects. I am very lucky to have such a good team around me. God bless you all.

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